Designer Relationships:

A Breaking Free Experience

Designer Relationships: A Breaking Free Experience

I’m starting a new Group Program and I’m looking for a handful of people to work with. I’m looking for those who are ready to take a deep look at themselves and their lives so that they can create the most incredible relationships and connections with themselves and with others. It’s your turn to Break Free and Live Authentically!

Here’s how this came about:

I currently work with clients on a 1:1 basis for 12 weeks to help them Break Free from the Religious and Societal Programming (the boxes) that they have been put in. We personally work through and implement the ideas and tools in this course. We find out what you really want in life and in your relationships and discover what’s holding you back. We transform beliefs and take you to a whole new level of living. You get to really dive deep and have personal attention to work through things. My clients gain such respect and love for themselves and learn to set healthy boundaries. They also learn to express their needs and desires in a healthy way. I absolutely love my 1:1 work but I want to create a bigger impact. This program allows me to not only impact more people but also directly create a community who can connect with one another and help each other along this journey of self discovery and learning healthy relationship skills. After this course, I am more than happy to help you implement what you have learned on a more personal level if you want to continue on your journey Breaking Free and living Authentically.

I have always had a passion for relationships. I have been reading and studying relationships and psychology since I was in highschool. I grew up in a home that did not model healthy relationship skills in a marriage. The norm was people pleasing, lack of boundaries, inability to say no or communicate your needs and desires clearly. Self care was selfish and frowned upon. There were belittling and controlling behaviours between my parents that I swore I would never allow in my relationships.

We are not taught these most basic skills as we grow up. There is not a class about having healthy relationships in school, yet we all desire relationships and connection in our lives. Don’t you think we should be taught how to be successful at this?

We also grew up with basically one model for “relationships” and that was marriage. Marriage is forever, it is full of sacrifice, it is hard, and it is forever or you have failed! That’s encouraging! With the divorce rate being so high it’s no wonder that people are confused about what their options are. They see marriages falling apart every day and so many people are unhappily married. It can be so discouraging to know what to do. We ask ourselves, “Can I ever really be happy in a relationship?”

There is a natural progression that we are all taught by our society. Meet someone, date, fall in love, get married, have a child, buy a house, live happily ever after. This is the standard and anything else goes against the boxes we’ve been programmed to live in. Monogamy is the standard! Monogamy is defined as a relationship with only one partner at a time and definitely sex with only one partner at a time. Marriage is less of a standard nowadays but monogamy still very much is.

What if you want more than that? What if a mediocre relationship is not for you? What if you desire more? What do you do then? What if the idea of only loving or having sex with one person does not feel good to you? What then?

Well, I am on a mission to normalize all relationship dynamics and configurations. I believe that the boxes often hinder our true authenticity. It’s time to Break Free from those boxes. Let’s create a new paradigm where you get to decide what is healthy and what works for you. Let’s find out what you truly desire and figure out how you can have the life you want. Prepare to love yourself deeply and find out what is holding you back from the life you want. Maybe there’s a life that you don’t even know you want because you’ve never been allowed to fantasize and dream?

I’m not here to Change minds, I’m here to Open minds! If you love monogamy and that is what you desire then go for it! Be you! I just want you to know the options out there and get to decide for yourself what is the best fit for you and your partner, then teach you how to be the most successful in that dynamic. Don’t just be monogamous because it is the default setting. Many of us are not wired that way.

You have to wonder who decided that we can love many children all at the same time but are unable to love more than one romantic partner. It may not be for you, but it is perfectly normal to have feelings for more than one person in your life. Why do you think affairs are so rampant? It makes me sad that affairs are acceptable but ethical non-monogamy is not. We will explore this a little bit deeper in this program because I ultimately want you to have all the information to make CHOICES in your life confidently. When you leave this program, you will have the Blueprint to create your Designer Relationship.

Here’s some of what we’re going to work on:

  1. We will start by getting really clear on what your desires are. What do you dream of? What does your ideal relationship look like? What do you want your life to look like? Let’s Fantasize a little or a lot. It’s all part of the fun.

  2. Next, we will figure out what is holding you back from achieving what you really want. Why haven’t you had the relationship you always wanted? Often it is the subconscious blocks that hold us back the most.

  3. We will discover what “the boxes” are that have kept us small and kept us conforming to society's standards. We will look at what our beliefs are and if they are true. Sometimes we hold on to these “limiting” beliefs our whole lives and these very beliefs we hold so dear actually prevent us from being our authentic selves.

  4. Next we will destroy these beliefs and transform them so that we can move forward towards our dreams and desires. Imagine figuring out what has been holding you back your whole life and changing the dialog to a more empowering set of beliefs? Wouldn’t that feel amazing?

  5. Part of breaking down beliefs is learning new truths and figuring out how they can empower you to finally create the life you want. It’s all about having the right mindset in life and we will make sure that you are released from the programming that is not serving you. We will Break Free Authentically and shift our mindset.

  6. Once you’ve released these limiting beliefs/blocks we will start to discover what is truly possible for you. How do you love and show love? What is your attachment style? What fears do you have when it comes to relationships? Why do you get jealous? You will start to discover who “you” truly are perhaps for the first time. You will discover your needs and figure out how you can actually meet those needs on your own and communicate them to others.

  7. You will embrace who you are and be empowered to stand in your truth and finally learn how to set boundaries in a loving authentic way. Loving yourself doesn’t mean you have to be selfish and rude to others. There is an authentic way to love yourself and remain kind and loving to those you care about. It’s about creating and maintaining deep connections. Vulnerability is a superpower.

  8. You will be able to write your new story and leave the old one behind. We will forge a new empowered path to living life to its fullest so you aren’t stuck in your old story.

  9. You will learn communication skills and other tools to bring your relationship to the next level. It starts with nurturing a beautiful relationship with yourself and then allowing that to permeate every other relationship and interaction with joy and confidence. Imagine loving others from a place of fullness and fulfillment rather than from a place of need and fear?

  10. You will learn the true power of interdependence. Learning to lean into others without demanding and expecting things is a true gift. It’s beautiful and so powerful. We all need each other. It is not more noble to be independent. That negates the reality that we are tribal beings who need each other and can work together for the greater good and ultimately more fulfillment.

  11. Lastly you will create a personal User Manual that defines who you are at your core and what you love and enjoy. It will inform others on how to “get the best” out of you. Lol It will be a guide for yourself and others on truly loving you to the fullest.

By the time we are done with this program, you will have the tools to create your Designer Relationship. I am more than thrilled to share what I have learned over the years with you. This will be an absolutely life changing experience!

Additionally, I will be choosing several of you to do a Case Study with to really show the world that relationships can be amazing even when they don’t fit the mold. I want you to get the most out of this experience.

Let’s start a revolution and change the world together!!! I want you to join me!

I’m going to work with the Designer Relationship group for 6 months.

I’m ready to get started right away and I’m inviting YOU to join this transformational Group!

Here’s how it will work...

We will meet every other week for a live coaching call where you will get my expert guidance on the material or any of your questions. I will be dropping new modules on the other weeks so that you have a couple weeks to work through the material. I want you to get the most out of this program so I have some worksheets built into the modules. If you do the work, you will experience amazing transformations. It’s up to you how much you want to get out of it.

I really want to create some great Case Studies so if you show up and do the work, you will be chosen to help further this beautiful mission. (Don’t worry, we can provide anonymity if necessary)

Prepare to leave your old habits and beliefs behind and let’s help you become the master of your life!!

The total cost is only $2500 USD/ individual and $3000 USD if you want to add your partner to join you… but for right now, make sure you register so you don’t miss out!

I can’t wait to work with you!

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